幸福就是如此的‘脆弱’。。
当你拥有它时会觉得很踏实，很开心。。
但是随时都得担心，因为它就是如此的薄脆，好像一碰就会碎。。
幸福也就是常常這个樣子,當你以為得到的時候,上天卻從你身邊拿走。。。
它呢，对于那些渴望它的，它好像月亮般。。。
漂亮但是远得变得遥不可及。。
对于拥有它的人，他也许垂手可得，但朋友啊，别忘了，它可悄悄得到你的身旁，它也能悄悄的在你不知时，离你而去。。。
所以不是沒有人不能拥有爰情或没有资格拥有爱情，而是你的爱情你是否守护得了它。。。
它呢，就像一片薄薄的水晶片，一不小心，它就碎了。。。
外表也许是坚强的，但里头却是脆弱不堪。。
许多人也是这样的，外表坚强，内心却是脆弱的，没看过她难过，没见过她伤心掉泪，没见过她无助软弱，不代表她是坚强的，不代表他不会伤心难过，软弱，你最多也只能证明，她不想让你看到她软弱的一面，落魄的一面。。。
爱情很漂亮，但若要得取它。价格不菲，代价更高。。
你呢，若有过于保护它，忽略了自己，又容易被这个外表漂亮的水晶而割伤，割得遍体鳞伤。。。
可是，就在这充满诱惑的世界，要把爱情照顾的完好无缺也不容易。。。
可是，每当这个水晶片上有了缺口时，它也不再像从前如此完美了。。。
他也好像是人与人之间的信任，一旦失去了，也再也无法挽回了。。。
之后，人与人之间，只剩下了，互相猜疑。。
不管再如何补救，也不会和从前一样了。
Friday, June 25, 2010
Wednesday, June 16, 2010
无止境思念。。。回忆。。。记忆。。。回想。。。
I missed you...
The feeling that i had when i was loving you...
The feeling that i experienced when i was under your protection...
The feeling that i had when i were missing you...
The feeling that i experienced when i were shedding tears for you countless times...
The times when you showed care to me...
The times when you stayed with me when i needed you by my side even though you knew you could do nothing but you would just stayed beside me...
The times when you were sad about i could do nothing but just to stay by your side and feeling helpless..
The memories that we spent together...
The memories that we quarrelled...
The memories as we had fun together...
The memories that you protected me when i needed help...
And so much more...
And i wanted you badly by my side...
I regretted for not cherishing you...
Regretted for not tell the truth...
Regrets that are so many that i am so regretful.
But thanks for the times you had given me...
All these memories were great...
Upon thinking back,it seems that everything you had done for me seems to be so great and sweet that it seems everything i had done for you is so small it is not worth mentioning...
Every single times we had together were so wonderful and it seems that even the times i shedded tears over you were so sweet and memorable..
Sometimes,because of a little flaws here and there,it actually helps it to be more prefect...
Merci(Thank you) for the times you had given me and i will remember them..
Merci beaucoup !
Je t'aime..
But then,i do not wish to be apart from you...
I am afraid that i will forget you,and the things we shared...
I am so afraid of everything...
Because of you,the courage and independence that was trained over the years can actually be overthrown by your appearance in front of me...
Just within a minute,my efforts over the years had gone down the drain...
The feeling that i had when i was loving you...
The feeling that i experienced when i was under your protection...
The feeling that i had when i were missing you...
The feeling that i experienced when i were shedding tears for you countless times...
The times when you showed care to me...
The times when you stayed with me when i needed you by my side even though you knew you could do nothing but you would just stayed beside me...
The times when you were sad about i could do nothing but just to stay by your side and feeling helpless..
The memories that we spent together...
The memories that we quarrelled...
The memories as we had fun together...
The memories that you protected me when i needed help...
And so much more...
And i wanted you badly by my side...
I regretted for not cherishing you...
Regretted for not tell the truth...
Regrets that are so many that i am so regretful.
But thanks for the times you had given me...
All these memories were great...
Upon thinking back,it seems that everything you had done for me seems to be so great and sweet that it seems everything i had done for you is so small it is not worth mentioning...
Every single times we had together were so wonderful and it seems that even the times i shedded tears over you were so sweet and memorable..
Sometimes,because of a little flaws here and there,it actually helps it to be more prefect...
Merci(Thank you) for the times you had given me and i will remember them..
Merci beaucoup !
Je t'aime..
But then,i do not wish to be apart from you...
I am afraid that i will forget you,and the things we shared...
I am so afraid of everything...
Because of you,the courage and independence that was trained over the years can actually be overthrown by your appearance in front of me...
Just within a minute,my efforts over the years had gone down the drain...
嚴爵- 我喜歡
我喜歡你的眼 看著我的眼
我喜歡你的臉 貼著我的臉
我喜歡你的手 牵者我的手
我喜歡你的口 吻著我的口
時間在改變 你不要改變
因為我很愛你 不想要你放棄
爱情 尤其這段得來不易
我爱你 真的是很爱你 所以想
就這樣继续爱下去
~music~
時間在改變 你不要改變
因為我很愛你 不想要你放棄
愛情 尤其這段得來不易
我爱你 真的是很爱你 所以想
就這樣继续爱下去
因為我很愛你 不想要你放棄
愛情 尤其這段得來不易
我爱你 真的是很爱你 所以想
就這樣继续爱下去
(因為我很愛你 不想要你放棄
愛情 尤其這段得來不易
我爱你 真的是很爱你 所以想
就這樣继续爱下去)
我愛你 真的是很愛你
所以想
把整個世界都給你
從10歲第一次摸到鋼琴的黑白鍵,嚴爵天生就要用音樂美好這世界
全部只為1個女孩xp.
我喜歡你的眼 看著我的眼
我喜歡你的臉 貼著我的臉
我喜歡你的手 牵者我的手
我喜歡你的口 吻著我的口
時間在改變 你不要改變
因為我很愛你 不想要你放棄
爱情 尤其這段得來不易
我爱你 真的是很爱你 所以想
就這樣继续爱下去
~music~
時間在改變 你不要改變
因為我很愛你 不想要你放棄
愛情 尤其這段得來不易
我爱你 真的是很爱你 所以想
就這樣继续爱下去
因為我很愛你 不想要你放棄
愛情 尤其這段得來不易
我爱你 真的是很爱你 所以想
就這樣继续爱下去
(因為我很愛你 不想要你放棄
愛情 尤其這段得來不易
我爱你 真的是很爱你 所以想
就這樣继续爱下去)
我愛你 真的是很愛你
所以想
把整個世界都給你
從10歲第一次摸到鋼琴的黑白鍵,嚴爵天生就要用音樂美好這世界
全部只為1個女孩xp.
爱情是撒旦送来的礼物，
拆开之后你的人生就陷入万劫不复。
爱情是毒药船的糖衣，
甜美的包装下隐藏着致命的危机。
爱情是残酷的游戏，
当你好不容易鼓起勇气付出真心的时候，
它将会让你再次陷入失望的绝境。
真心是笑话，
勇气是废话，
坚持是鬼话，
忠贞是梦话，
幸福是屁话，
所以结论是爱情到底是什么？？
什么都不是。。。
爱情，算了吧。。。
浪费时间的游戏吗？
*Note: This post is not meant to offend anyone or condemn anything.. Just that i think it is kind of true so just thought of posting it...
拆开之后你的人生就陷入万劫不复。
爱情是毒药船的糖衣，
甜美的包装下隐藏着致命的危机。
爱情是残酷的游戏，
当你好不容易鼓起勇气付出真心的时候，
它将会让你再次陷入失望的绝境。
真心是笑话，
勇气是废话，
坚持是鬼话，
忠贞是梦话，
幸福是屁话，
所以结论是爱情到底是什么？？
什么都不是。。。
爱情，算了吧。。。
浪费时间的游戏吗？
*Note: This post is not meant to offend anyone or condemn anything.. Just that i think it is kind of true so just thought of posting it...
Monday, June 14, 2010
Not sure why,this few days i was kind of motivated to update my blog...
I know this is kind of lame,so you don't have to say words like 'lame' etc..
And like yesterday,i only kind of updated it in the middle of the night..
But i watching watching some shows recently and started thinking..
真爱，永恒的爱又是否存在？？
I talked to some of my friends before about such topics too..
but then again,who believes in real love now,if you believe,raise your hand!
haha,even if you do,i wouldn't know.
True love.. How do we define it?
What is love in the first place?
After watching all the love movies,shows,does it let us understand more about love?
What do such movies (and books) tell us about ourselves?
They tell us that we are far more interested in falling in love than remaining there or understanding what true love is really all about!
I also kind of nothing to do and went online to search about people's defination of love and etc.
But then,in summary,what do i get?
I get all different versions of views on misconception of love.
So what are some of our common misconceptions about love?
They include the following:
• A deep longing for someone and great desire to be with that person is true love.
• If love dies, you can't get it back.
• There is one and only one "soul mate" for each and every person.
• Love is all about emotional chemistry.
• If a relationship is rocky, it means you picked the wrong mate.
• If you happen to meet the right person, you will automatically live happily ever after.
All of these are dangerously misguided concepts, yet they are promoted incessantly in popular movies, music, books and television. It's no wonder so many marriages and relationships run into trouble!
Why is the truth about marriages based on true love so distorted?
Normally,the start of many relationshipa are all just infatuation,but then,infatuation is definately not a true mature love.
And it's a myth that there is a "one and only" person in the world just right for you and that finding him or her is simply a matter of luck. When a relationship goes on the rocks, it's rarely because the husband and wife picked the wrong mate. This is adolescent thinking, taught and fostered by the media.
Falling in love can be described in the vernacular as "puppy love" rather than true love.
In summary,some people says:
Love isn't blind or deaf or dumb - in fact it sees far more than it will ever tell. It is going beyond yourself and stretching who you are for someone else. Being in love entails seeing someone as you wish they were: to love them is to see who they really are and still care for them. Love isn't bitter, but you can't have love without pain: sacrifice is the hallmark of love , the coin of love.
Love means that you trust the person, would do anything for the person, know that person is with you through thick and thin, isn't afraid to be seen with you. make sure they treat you right.
•Love means having strong feelings for someone that can be close friends, family or even someone in a romantic relationship. Love is a strong feeling that represents affection toward someone dear to you heart.
•there is no true meaning in love. love with meaning is not love.
•The meaning of love is prolonged mutual protection. Love is real when it is found. It is free when it is grasped. Can you tell with a kiss? Love is the magic/mutual in a kiss. There is no magic in a kiss if there is no love/mutual within it. A kiss with magic has no forced for love makes it gentle. There is no magic in just a lip kiss. Love has a different kiss. Some kisses are only stolen breaths. If you need to ask: "is this love" then the Answer is: "no" for when/if it ever happens you will know. Ravonseed.
•The possible real meaning/purpose of love is: to reproduce. To stay together to protect each other long enough to continue your blood line/genetics. The meaning of love is prolonged mutual protection. Love is real when it is found. It is free when it is grasped. Can you tell with a kiss? Love is the magic/mutual in a kiss. There is no magic in a kiss if there is no love/mutual within it. A kiss with magic has no forced for love makes it gentle. There is no magic in just a lip kiss. Love has a different kiss. Some kisses are only stolen breaths. If you need to ask: "is this love" then the Answer is: "no" for when/if it ever happens you will know. Ravonseed.
•Love is when you are certain that you love someone, and then you think you love someone else, then you both realize that you could never live without each other
However,i think that yhe true meaning of love is found in the word "unconditional". Loving someone through their flaws and all. Accepting and embracing each others differences and compromising with their offerings.
•bokonon tells us:" a lover is a liar to himself he lies the truthful are loveless like oyster their eyes."
Now i realised,why is it as if i am writing a report?? haha..
For true love,希望大家可以真的得到吧。。可是不要认为有爱人在你的身边才是幸福，爱是有很多种，父母对你的爱等等，父母的爱永远是无私的，但也时常常被我们忽略的。。谢谢全天下的父母，谢谢你们对子女无私的爱。。至于，我们的另一半是否可以带给我们幸福，要试着给他们机会我们才会知道吧。。。至于，真爱和迷恋，没人可以帮我们，我们要学会自己分辨了。。。
I know this is kind of lame,so you don't have to say words like 'lame' etc..
And like yesterday,i only kind of updated it in the middle of the night..
But i watching watching some shows recently and started thinking..
真爱，永恒的爱又是否存在？？
I talked to some of my friends before about such topics too..
but then again,who believes in real love now,if you believe,raise your hand!
haha,even if you do,i wouldn't know.
True love.. How do we define it?
What is love in the first place?
After watching all the love movies,shows,does it let us understand more about love?
What do such movies (and books) tell us about ourselves?
They tell us that we are far more interested in falling in love than remaining there or understanding what true love is really all about!
I also kind of nothing to do and went online to search about people's defination of love and etc.
But then,in summary,what do i get?
I get all different versions of views on misconception of love.
So what are some of our common misconceptions about love?
They include the following:
• A deep longing for someone and great desire to be with that person is true love.
• If love dies, you can't get it back.
• There is one and only one "soul mate" for each and every person.
• Love is all about emotional chemistry.
• If a relationship is rocky, it means you picked the wrong mate.
• If you happen to meet the right person, you will automatically live happily ever after.
All of these are dangerously misguided concepts, yet they are promoted incessantly in popular movies, music, books and television. It's no wonder so many marriages and relationships run into trouble!
Why is the truth about marriages based on true love so distorted?
Normally,the start of many relationshipa are all just infatuation,but then,infatuation is definately not a true mature love.
And it's a myth that there is a "one and only" person in the world just right for you and that finding him or her is simply a matter of luck. When a relationship goes on the rocks, it's rarely because the husband and wife picked the wrong mate. This is adolescent thinking, taught and fostered by the media.
Falling in love can be described in the vernacular as "puppy love" rather than true love.
In summary,some people says:
Love isn't blind or deaf or dumb - in fact it sees far more than it will ever tell. It is going beyond yourself and stretching who you are for someone else. Being in love entails seeing someone as you wish they were: to love them is to see who they really are and still care for them. Love isn't bitter, but you can't have love without pain: sacrifice is the hallmark of love , the coin of love.
Love means that you trust the person, would do anything for the person, know that person is with you through thick and thin, isn't afraid to be seen with you. make sure they treat you right.
•Love means having strong feelings for someone that can be close friends, family or even someone in a romantic relationship. Love is a strong feeling that represents affection toward someone dear to you heart.
•there is no true meaning in love. love with meaning is not love.
•The meaning of love is prolonged mutual protection. Love is real when it is found. It is free when it is grasped. Can you tell with a kiss? Love is the magic/mutual in a kiss. There is no magic in a kiss if there is no love/mutual within it. A kiss with magic has no forced for love makes it gentle. There is no magic in just a lip kiss. Love has a different kiss. Some kisses are only stolen breaths. If you need to ask: "is this love" then the Answer is: "no" for when/if it ever happens you will know. Ravonseed.
•The possible real meaning/purpose of love is: to reproduce. To stay together to protect each other long enough to continue your blood line/genetics. The meaning of love is prolonged mutual protection. Love is real when it is found. It is free when it is grasped. Can you tell with a kiss? Love is the magic/mutual in a kiss. There is no magic in a kiss if there is no love/mutual within it. A kiss with magic has no forced for love makes it gentle. There is no magic in just a lip kiss. Love has a different kiss. Some kisses are only stolen breaths. If you need to ask: "is this love" then the Answer is: "no" for when/if it ever happens you will know. Ravonseed.
•Love is when you are certain that you love someone, and then you think you love someone else, then you both realize that you could never live without each other
However,i think that yhe true meaning of love is found in the word "unconditional". Loving someone through their flaws and all. Accepting and embracing each others differences and compromising with their offerings.
•bokonon tells us:" a lover is a liar to himself he lies the truthful are loveless like oyster their eyes."
Now i realised,why is it as if i am writing a report?? haha..
For true love,希望大家可以真的得到吧。。可是不要认为有爱人在你的身边才是幸福，爱是有很多种，父母对你的爱等等，父母的爱永远是无私的，但也时常常被我们忽略的。。谢谢全天下的父母，谢谢你们对子女无私的爱。。至于，我们的另一半是否可以带给我们幸福，要试着给他们机会我们才会知道吧。。。至于，真爱和迷恋，没人可以帮我们，我们要学会自己分辨了。。。
今天看了一部戏，他却说，原来开启真心的钥匙不曾消失，只是被隐藏在内心深处，一个连我们也找不到的角落。。
他也曾说，真心若被隐藏久了，有时会连我们自己也会找不到了。。这也是我非常认同的一句话。。。可是，我们有些人为何把真心藏起来呢，真心换绝情，付出换伤害。。。
我们不想再受到任何伤害了，受够了，所以才把自己伪装起来。。。
这也是一种自我保护啊。。。因为久了，也同时不信任人了，就算是最要好的朋友，又怎么样？你也不能保证他不会伤害你啊，若倒是遭背叛，失望，痛苦，全都要承受。。不容易。。宁愿再辛苦，闷在心里的不愉快，心情一切留给自己好了，至少，我们还能相信自己。。。说真的，伪装久了，也觉得累了，想卸装，但，我能吗？也许我是可以的，但缺乏勇气吧。。。我不期盼有一天有人会找到开启我的真心的钥匙，但只希望自己有继续下去的力量。。感觉，自己好累好累。。好像力量快要用光了，单单这几年就足够了，不想继续，但我又选择吗？
他也曾说，真心若被隐藏久了，有时会连我们自己也会找不到了。。这也是我非常认同的一句话。。。可是，我们有些人为何把真心藏起来呢，真心换绝情，付出换伤害。。。
我们不想再受到任何伤害了，受够了，所以才把自己伪装起来。。。
这也是一种自我保护啊。。。因为久了，也同时不信任人了，就算是最要好的朋友，又怎么样？你也不能保证他不会伤害你啊，若倒是遭背叛，失望，痛苦，全都要承受。。不容易。。宁愿再辛苦，闷在心里的不愉快，心情一切留给自己好了，至少，我们还能相信自己。。。说真的，伪装久了，也觉得累了，想卸装，但，我能吗？也许我是可以的，但缺乏勇气吧。。。我不期盼有一天有人会找到开启我的真心的钥匙，但只希望自己有继续下去的力量。。感觉，自己好累好累。。好像力量快要用光了，单单这几年就足够了，不想继续，但我又选择吗？
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